Sunday, August 23, 2015

Cheers to us, my truly heartbroken friends

It seems like this era we're living in romanticizes the idea of being broken way too much. If you're all smiley and look like you've never been hurt, you're hundred percent a shallow person. Teenagers tend to appear as depressed as they possibly can. They find a reason to be unhappy the moment they open their eyes in the morning.
And, the most popular thing, to praise the idea of someone else braking you. "It's not true love if they did not make you hurt like hell" their naive voices scream.
But, were they ever really heartbroken? I don't think so. Poor people, not even knowing what they're longing for.
They don't know how it actually hurts. Hurts, if you're lucky. Mostly, it leaves you lying on your bedroom floor, so lost you don't even know where you are, wishing you never get to feel again. You don't look for a person who'll fix you, you learn to handle yourself.
Heartbreaks, the ones that happen after those "big", "dramatic" and "passionate" love's do not teach you how to write good poetry, that's not what they're here for. They give you a free ticket for a field trip in some type of hell, yes, but that's something temporary. Yeah, there comes a moment when you get up from the mentioned floor and you know exactly what needs to be done. You feel empty and numb at first. You go cold through life, the first few steps.
Everything happens for a reason.
Don't try to act broken, don't ever wish for being lost, don't ever dream of a hurt heart, don't even think about acting depression when in reality you never had a reason to fake a smile.
I'm just saying, there's no need to fake that melancholy.
If I must say it like that, your heartbreak will come, sooner or later. Don't romanticize all that sadness, it's pointless. Honestly, you don't know shit about it. And no, you're not stupid for being happy in this crazy world. Just...realize, people, we're not going anywhere this way.

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